Stressed out? I thought I had it all under control. I help people manage their stress, so my own couldn’t be an issue!
But it was. More about all of that in a bit, as well as a surprising way to protect yourself.
Stress is a common topic. Most of us are either stressed out, trying to destress, or know someone who is struggling with their stress. But what is stress really, what are some of the common stress effects on the body, and what can we do about it?
According to Merriam-Webster, stress is “a physical, chemical, or emotional factor that causes bodily or mental tension and may be a factor in disease causation”. Stressful situations are a normal part of life, but our reactions to them can be modified.
Stress can be either acute or chronic.
Acute stress is generally helpful. It’s a response to a threat,...
Clutter. Whether you have a lot or a little, it can be tough to get rid of it. Or maybe for you, it’s not hard to get started, but then you find yourself surrounded by piles in various stages of cleanout that seem even more overwhelming than when they were shoved away somewhere.
So what is the natural inclination? Shove it all back where it came from, or even worse, leave it out in piles and feel the guilt and shame of not being able to “get it together”.
The example below may be extreme compared to your situation. I hope it is. Either way, the principles are the same.
My mom was a hoarder. She was a genuinely amazingly giving, loving, caring person. She would give anything to and do anything for anyone. Except for herself. ...
This week, we're going to talk about something that you may not really think of as related to self-care. The degree to which it affects you may vary, but we’re all impacted by it to some extent. It’s our physical space.
How our environment looks and feels to us can help or hinder our mood and our goals. The visual and physical messes and the feelings that can bring up can be dramatic. When we have piles on our desks or on our countertops or just general clutter, it can definitely increase our stress and decrease our motivation because it can feel very overwhelming, and it can make us feel like we’re failing, especially if we're already stressed. Of...
So many of us are burning the candle at both ends and have so much going on that there just doesn't feel like enough hours in the day. There is a lot of work that can be done to dig into what matters the most and free up some time. But for this week we are just going to concentrate on how to fit in little bits of self-care into the tiny pockets of time that you likely do have available even if you don't realize it right now.
Getting up even 10 minutes earlier can allow you a few minutes of alone time to set the day off on the right foot.
The BECOMING Method series, post 2 of 8.
By this time, you:
- know where you’re starting from
- have determined your areas of improvement/opportunity
If you are just tuning in and didn’t join us last week, please go back and do so, or just grab the Life Balance Tool at www.jennylytle.com/balance. This will give you a way to take a look at your life in each of the major areas and determine where you’d like to make some positive changes.
What lights you up? Gives you energy?
What do you enjoy doing so much that you lose track of time? Take a few minutes to start coming up with some ideas.
I have always been an intermittent exerciser. I will do ok for a few days, then life gets in the way and I’ll walk once or twice every couple of weeks. I was cruising along like that until a month ago today when I decided to really commit to becoming more active. Since then I have had at least 30 minutes of intentional activity per day, and at least 10,000 steps daily. I’ve had quite a few people ask me how I stay motivated, so I’ll share some of what has worked for me.
One of the ways that I have found to stay active when that was not always my norm is to start off my morning that way. I wake up, use the bathroom brush my teeth, put my contacts in, and get started on my Bible in a year app and usually 2 other devotionals that I am doing. Then depending on if it's my hospice week or not I may need to start a little bit later (I work every other week on-call 5p-830a, so I can’t get...